"It believes exactly what you tell it—through the words you use to describe yourself, the actions you take to care for yourself, and the choices you make to express yourself. Tell the world you are one-of-a-kind creation who came here to experience wonder and spread joy. Expect to be accommodated."
My heroine of the day - Victoria Moran and her book Lit from Within
More and more, I believe that the words that come out of my mouth define who I am, what sort of day I have, how I will feel, what will happen to me or not happen.
It works for me!